Toxic people
What is toxin? It denotes something poisonous. How does poison works? According to the strength of poison, it can kill someone. After we intake poison, is there any possible way to escape from that dark day? There is no way. You got to face it.
Is it good to have poison with us? No, are you curious to know why? Because It will affect our bright future and it will kill us. So, it is safe to remove poisonous things from our life.
How to remove it? Are you searching for the right formula in google? Don’t stress much. Spare few minutes to read this blog. By the end you will know the answer to the question:
How to remove toxic people from our life
1) Learn how toxic people can work?
2) Analyse your relationship.
3) Analyse how they are affecting you.
4) Are you able to bring your complete potentiality?
5) Are you not able to evaluate yourself?
6) Make yourself firm.
7) Formula to get rid of toxic people.
In this universe without reading a question, no one can answer correctly. Likewise 1st read step by step, it will help you to analyse the toxic people and how to get rid from them.
Learn how toxic people can work?
As discussed in the 1st para, toxic people are the most dangerous creatures in this universe. Toxic people are more poisonous than poison (ingredient which use to kill someone). Because poison will kill a person physically, whereas toxic people will make you feel, you are not worth to live. Now you may think how to identify them? Don’t overthink instead start searching. Even after searching, we can’t easily identify them because they are silent killers. And they don’t advertise their real self. Do you want to know how close they will be? Scroll down to learn more.
They will create an illusion and make you believe they are nothing without you.
They will influence you
They will help you a lot
They will support you in some crucial scenarios
They will be nice to you
Only one difference between good people and toxic people is, good people help you to become a better version of yourself. Through their help you will achieve greater heights and learn efficiently. If you have toxic people near you, they won’t allow you to grow yourself. They will make you feel stupid in some scenario. But people who have good intention they will help you to fly high whereas toxic people will not help you to fly high. This is the only difference between both types of people.
Analyse your relationship
Before applying this formula, analyse
who they are?
How did you get to know about them?
Does that member belong to your family or friend circle?
What kind of relationship you were with that person?
(It must have been love or lust or crush or besties etc… if they do not belong to your family then start analysing their background)
How did the relationship happen?
How long do you know them?
How did you become close?
While we are in a relationship with a person, we fail to analyse their history. Because of our love, we tend to trust them blindly. And toxic people simply take us for granted.
If that toxic person is your relative, analyse their behaviour?
Notice the way how they treat others?
Is that person very close to you?
Identify, whether they need you or you need them?
Most of the people fail to do it, because analysing is a good quality. Even after analysing if we fail to chuck them away from our life. We are done, they will ruin our life. Some people may have Doctorate yet they fail to analyse toxic people. If a person successfully identifies toxin, they will reach greater heights.
This is the most common phase in our life where most of them fail. This the reason why even intellectual people fail miserably.
Analyse how they are affecting you
After getting to know about them, analyse in which medium they are affecting you. For example, if you are wrongly believing a person and you fall in love. They use “LOVE” as a medium to destroy you. Because of this term you fall into their trap. Likewise identify through which medium they are trying to be close with you.
Analysing the medium will help you to remove that toxic people from your life. After identifying the medium, you must remove them from your life. If you still keep them in your life, they will do everything just to make your life miserable.
For example, if someone loves you truly, you can easily identify through Gifts which they present for you. In my previous blog I have mentioned what is the best gifts for our loved one? click here to read that blog. Gifts play an important role in our life.
If toxic people is your cousin, find how you are influenced by them and make yourself free from their lethal clutch. If you start to analyse, eventually you will also find a way to save yourself from their spell.
Are you able to bring all your potentiality?
After analysing everything, you will come to know your mental state. Because according to psychology if a person is surrounded by toxic people, he/she can’t bring out their complete potentiality. Because toxic people don’t like to see you succeed.
The best way to analyse yourself is through questions. Here I am going to mention few questions, try answering so that you will have a better understanding of your present mental state.
Are you able to work without much stress?
Are you able to unleash your full potentiality to this universe?
Are you strong enough to face the world alone?
Are you able to come out from your comfort zone?
Are you able to tackle tough times without any assistance?
Are you able to learn daily?
Are you able to work hard and smart?
Are you able to socialize with people?
Are you able to develop a conversation without any hesitance?
Trust me, I have exactly been where you are. I have failed numerous times. It is not that I am not going to fail anymore. But now I have found a way to overcome failure. At one point of time, I thought, I can’t live independently. Then I started to analyse what stagnates me. Then I found it is none other than toxic people. So, I chucked them away from my life.
If we start to look things in multiple perspective, then we will understand there are several ways to enhance our self. This attitude will make your enemy to feel low. This is where your growth starts.
Are you not able evaluate yourself?
Why are toxic people targeting you, because they know you cannot express your real self. If you are not able to express, you must work on it until you are able to express yourself. Your inability is the investment of toxic people. So never let them in your life. If you let them in, get ready to face all the consequences. The consequences are,
You will feel low,
You will lose your hope,
You cannot believe your self,
You will be distracted by many things,
You will feel alone,
You will feel this universe is cheating you,
You will try to harm yourself,
You will feel, you are useless,
You will feel, except you everyone are living happily,
You will think you are foolish.
Now you may think it is very easy to say. Because I too had a similar thought. You will not learn unless you get in to the field. Study and discuss with people don’t repeat their mistakes. If you are able to proceed further toxic people will immediately back of.
Make yourself firm
Before you do something, make yourself firm. If you are scared, toxic people will leverage the situation to their accord. Believe you can lead your life independently.
Formula to get rid of toxic people
Through previous six steps, hope you have already leant the formula. Now all you need to do is: combine everything and leverage everything to your accord.
If you are able to follow all steps, you will surely get rid of toxic people. “Keep thinking who you are.” All the best for your bright feature.
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